As much as I love porn and sex, I never considered myself the kind of girl who would crush on a porn star. I like my porn to be free and short and I don’t usually like to watch the same video more than once. I never know the names of the participants. I like the anonymity. Basically I treat porn like a one night stand. I took you home. I had my way with you. I’ll never call you again.
Then one day my world was turned upside down. On the search for a video to watch with my Partner in Crime, I came across a video with the title Very Hot Natural Sex ( yeah, NSFW. This IS a link to porn). Hmmm….this could be completely amazing or spiral downhill really, really fast. So I decided to give it a shot. And…
Ah. Mah. Gahd.
Yeah, I said that. Because where has this porn (and porn star) been all my life? Although I find porn to be a turn on, I’ll be the first to agree that the majority of it is focused on its target audience – men. Finding porn that gets to the point but still focuses on the woman’s pleasure is hard to find but when you do find it, it is more than a little panty-soaking.
Had you shown me a picture of this guy I would have said he was cute but I wouldn’t have believed for a minute that he was a porn star. He is not your usual tall, buff and overly waxed man candy. He is thin but fit, on the short side (5’8″), waxed in only the important areas – and sometimes other areas, depending on the film – and he is kind of adorable.
And then I saw him in action….
…taking care of his partner, offering dirty words and spanks of encouragement, making the girl look at him as she comes….and I realized that he isn’t adorable. He is out of this world HOT. And naughty. And DOMINANT. More dominant than your typical alpha male. It’s a heady combination. No pun intended. Dear. God. I have goose bumps just writing this damn post. Mind you, my description of Mr. Deen is based on that first video I saw. I am fairly certain that is the only “vanilla” video you will find of his. You will find that the majority of his repertoire is much kinkier. Which of course has just made him that much more fascinating for this new fan.
I still like my porn free and short but it’s no longer a one night stand. Now we have a friends-with-benefits type of relationship. And I fully admit that with friends – um, I mean porn stars – like James Deen, I might be just a little more interested in finding more friends – or porn stars – to take home for a quick ride.